Why run for the Boston Public Library Fund?

Obviously if you are going to run for a charity it needs to be important to you and connected to your why. So, why the Boston Public Library Fund? Here’s what I said on my application for the team:

Application: Why do you want to run for Team PBL?

Answer: To say that I’ve spent my life hopping from library to library is an understatement. I have deep memories that date back to my elementary school days of volunteering in the school library. I can clearly picture the librarian, Mrs. Breakstone- the card catalog system the comfort of being surrounded by books. I have similar memories in Junior High and Senior HS. One constant regardless of the school was that I was volunteering in the library. I imagine it’s my love of books that had me in the library as a student. The love of books has continued and been passed down to my children, ages 10 and 12. As I type this it seems really evident that I should most definitely have become a librarian. But I was fixated on becoming a lawyer, which I did and also involved a lot of time in a library! But after having children, I was drawn to education and back to the library. During the onset of Covid I became a substitute teacher to help bridge the gap during in person learning. Any guesses about where I was stationed…correct the library. 

Running a race for charity has to be highly personal. You have to believe deeply in the cause and the mission to ask other people for money. When things get tough you have to draw on that sense of purpose of why you are doing something. While I do not live in Boston, I know the importance of the library to the community and the broad depth of the programming that you offer. I serve on a local library board, so I feel a connection to the importance of public libraries and what they contribute to the community. 

Whenever I finish a race- my boys ask “which marathon are WE running next?” I always chuckle about the we part because I’m the one doing all the running. The answer has always been the same…BOSTON. They even got me the Run Boston hat as a reminder. The reality is that while they aren’t doing the running- they have always been part of the process. From chatting to me on the treadmill during my early morning training runs, to brainstorming ways to raise dollars for charity, to being out on the course with my husband to support me. As much as books are an integral part of our every day I can’t imagine how excited they would be to hear that we are going to fundraise for the BPL.(Read about their response below). For them and me it would be a dream come true to combine my passion of running and reading while accomplishing the unicorn marathon.

Application: Please tell us something interesting about yourself.

Answer: I’m a mom to two boys, who pivoted her entire professional life when they were born. While I don’t regret getting a law degree (truly got to have my dream job!), as it provides me a foundation for much of my work as it relates to critical thinking and putting systems into place for our independent day school- I’ve thought more than once about going back to school to obtain my library science degree. I feel blessed to be able to work at the same place my children go to school. 

In the mean time I share my love of reading and book in general in other ways- like blogging about them or sharing on social media. My blog website is literally- runreadrepeat.com. I started a book club at work. We have been meeting for nearly two years. Each month the group comes up with a genre and I put together 5-6 books for everyone to consider. Then we vote- so we all have ownership over the book. Some have been winners- others less so but it has really helped build a sense of community among a group of us who know that we all enjoy reading. 

I also enjoy meeting authors and attending author events, especially those presented as public library fundraisers. My best friend from college and I plan our annual get together around traveling to an author event. I’m so excited because this coming week I’m taking my ten year old to a local event featuring Jeff Kinney. He’s literally been counting down the days until he gets to see meet his first author in real life.

So how did the boys respond to the news? You know how there’s just something about kids- where their emotions and responses are so genuine? There was so much PURE JOY when I shared the news. The wheels were already turning for them about how much fun it would be to incorporate our love of reading/books and running into this adventure.

I think it’s clear me + books + running = Boston Public Library Fund 2026 Boston Marathon team!! Let’s go!

Explain it to me…why do you run marathons?

As I was jumping for joy (literally) about being selected for the Boston Public Library Fund team to run the Boston Marathon in April 2026 my friend asked that important question- why do you run marathons? I paused for a moment and responded “because I can.” I wasn’t being flip, I was being serious. I know that at some point in my life I will not be able to run (may that be a VERY long time from now), but for now I can and I do. This morning I got a reminder that our time is finite. Susan Hurley, the founder of Charity Teams (who organizes the teams to run for charity for the Boston Marathon) died at the age of 61 of ovarian cancer. Live for today because tomorrow isn’t promised. So I stand by- I run because I can!

My marathon running journey started as a way to cope with my father’s advancing Alzheimer’s. He had early onset Alzheimer’s and ultimately succumbed to the terrible disease at the age of 64. Running has always been my time and space for thinking and decompressing, so it seemed logically to run for charity. All but one of my marathon runs has been for charity. It takes on extra meaning to not only train, but to train with a purpose of raising dollars for awareness for an organization.

So back to the why do you run marathons question? For several days after being asked, I continued to really think about why on earth do I train for twelve weeks to go through the grueling challenge of running 26.2 miles?? The training process is hard. It’s hard to balance along with work and two sons with full and active schedules. It takes careful planning, early mornings and LOTS of time on my Landice treadmill. LOTS! Yes, I do all my training on the treadmill, but that’s a different story for another day. So yes, just getting ready for toeing the line is a lot of work and preparation. But, I thrive on schedule. I’ve followed the same training plan for each of my previous four marathons. I know what I’m supposed to do when, I make a plan and I stick to it. Making the time is easier said than done, but fortunately my husband is incredibly supportive and I apparently don’t mind getting up when it’s dark outside.

I’ve been struggling for days to think of how to explain the amazement of race day. It’s knowing that you have literally done everything possible to get to that moment and that you have to trust that it’s enough to get you from the start to the finish. It’s wondering if your nutrition is going to work. Have you fueled enough? Is the weather going to cooperate? Is your mind going to go the distance? While running is very obviously a physical activity, when you hit the wall of fatigue it becomes just as much mental as physical. It would be super easy to be like- I’m out, no need to finish. I’m reminded of my 2021 NYC Marathon experience- I had just entered Central Park with 2-3 miles to go. EVERYTHING hurt. I accidentally called my sister and thought that she had called me…there was no doubt in my mind that I was going to finish, but seriously I was delirious. I might be delusional, but I have never once thought that I wasn’t going to finish a race…even a marathon. Crazy, right? May my streak continue and allow me to finish in April.

Back to race day- there is so much excitement and so many people who come out just to cheer on all the “crazy” runners. When you are questioning humanity- you should definitely go to a race. That’s where you see people doing really hard things and total strangers cheering their heads off in support. I learned early on to make sure I wear my name on my person. It’s literally like magic- people know when you need it and they call out- “Kelly, you’ve got this.” And you keep putting one foot in front of the other.

Crossing the finish line is magical. It’s a holy cow- I did that moment. It’s all the emotions- exhaustion- tears, always tears, and absolute pure joy. The closely thing I can think to compare it to is giving birth. Similar in a lot of way- months of hard physical preparation to push your body to go the distance. Back to NYC 2021- the boys were young. We were just “coming out of Covid.” They weren’t even vaccinated yet. Jeffrey and the boys, ages 8 and 6 were in the grandstand in Central Park for HOURS. For sense of timing- as I stood on the Verrazano Bridge preparing to start Jeff texted to say they were in the grandstand. Yikes- it was going to be a minute until I got there. But the boys saw all the professionals finish. Fortunately, they didn’t count how many people finished in front of me. They were patient and they literally got to see me finish one of the largest marathons in the world. Seeing the three of them there for me is a memory that I will not soon forget. Jeffrey got a truly remarkable photo of the boys from behind with cowbells- and me right in between- signature arms in the air finishing. Priceless!

So, while I run for all of these reason- I run for me and that I can- I run for the amazing experience- I run to raise awareness and dollars for amazing organizations like the Boston Public Library Fund– I also run because I know the boys are watching. They watched my disappointment in 2020 when the NYC Marathon got postponed. They watched as I said screw it, I’ll run my first marathon solo in my neighborhood because I didn’t think my dad would make it to 2021 (he didn’t) and because I had set my brain on running that year. They watched as I was unjustifiably disappointed with my time in 2021, so I signed up for the Chicago Marathon on the way home. They watched as I ran Chicago not focused on time but for the experience. They watched when I took a break from running and racing. They watched when I didn’t get selected for the Boston Marathon when I applied to run for charity in 2024. There were tears- but then I found another marathon and ran that instead. They watched when I applied again and got selected. This whole process is a metaphor for life- there are ups and downs. There are times you have to dust yourself off and try again. There are time you have to give yourself grace and recognize that you are enough.

The boys knew I was applying again this year. They knew how important running the Boston Marathon was to me. And they too, had total joy when I announced we are going to Boston. Somehow something so individual as running a marathon has become a family affair. On Patriot’s Day I know my three biggest fans will be cheering me on. They won’t care how long it takes- they will just care that I do my best!

The Blog is BACK…and did someone say Boston Marathon?

It has been a minute since I provided an update. Actually, it’s been nearly two years! How is that possible? It seems working and momming, running and reading and all the things in between got in the way just a bit. I started this blog in January of 2020. Yes, in the life before Covid, during my stay at home mom life era. In September I would go back to work, for what was supposed to be part time that quickly turned nearly full time subbing in the Lower School…during COVID. One thing led to another and by July of 2021 I was back to work full time. So much has happened in the nearly six year since I created this space! But let’s just do a quick catch up sine January 2024…shall we?

Books- I’m still reading all of the books!! I don’t anticipate returning to regular book reviews on this platform, but never say never. The best place to see my latest reads is on Instagram. I started a book club at work. We have been meeting for over eighteen months. We have fun discussions and read a variety of genres. Plus we meet in the middle of the day, so we are actually talking about the books! It has been such a great way to spend time with my coworkers doing something that we all enjoy. It’s been so meaningful to me to inspire others to rekindle their passion for reading. I’ve connected with Netgalley and love the opportunity to read Advanced Reader Copies of books! We have added visiting local independent bookstores to our itinerary whenever we travel and have a running list of all those that we have visited. The boys are totally in love with this idea and we’ve discovered so many fun small businesses to support as part of our travels. I continue to attend author events and enjoyed sharing C’s first opportunity to meet one of his favorite authors- Jeff Kinney. It’s also possible that I introduced myself to author Lucy Score in a Sheetz bathroom following a Frederick Backman author event and a picture of us from the bathroom was in her newsletter. I’m also into my second year on the Jewish Library of Baltimore Board. Books and access to them continue to be a meaningful and integral part of my life.

Family/Life-The family is doing well! We are in our travel soccer, wrestling, drums, piano era. Which means, Jeffrey and I spend a lot of time dividing and conquering. The boys continue to amaze me each and every day with how they conduct themselves and the commitment they have to their various interests. It’s hard to believe that they are in 6th and 4th grade. The world they live in is so different from the one Jeffrey and I experienced. We work to keep them grounded in faith, family and friends to remember what is truly important.

I transitioned into a new role at work. While I’m missing “my people,” I’m loving the new challenge of building an organizational system and using my brain in new ways again. I get to work with an entirely different part of the campus. We said goodbye to Ruby in September. She was my shadow, my ride or die, always by my side furry companion. Truth be told, rather than sitting at the table, if she were here, I would be on the couch typing with her snuggled up next to me. Hoping each day gets a little bit better, but we still have a Ruby sized hole in our hearts.

Running-How about running- what has happened on the running from since January 2024?? Honestly, running had just become one of the many things I was doing to stay active. Then I was more focused on riding and lifting. In the summer of 2023 we went to Boston as part of our summer vacation. During the course of the trip, I picked up a Run Boston hat. The seed was planted in that moment that I would run the Boston Marathon. September of 2024, the running switch flipped and I applied to run the Boston Marathon for charity. Spoiler alert I wasn’t selected. I was incredibly disappointed, but used the opportunity to find another marathon. In March, 2025 I ran the Virginia Beach Shamrock Marathon. A beautifully flat course. A much smaller race, but the perfect race back into running races again. It was the first time I wasn’t running a race for charity, but just because I wanted to run a marathon. I know, why does anyone want to run a marathon?? More to come on that topic soon!

Why is the blog back?? Originally, way back when I created it this was a space to share racing/training updates. And maybe, just maybe I’m going to have a big race coming up in 2026. If you know me, I didn’t just let one year of not getting selected for the Boston Marathon keep me from trying again. As soon as the application process opened I submitted my application to the same charity that rejected me last year. I promise there are no hard feelings and I will forever be supportive of them and their mission! I knew that my why was the same and hoped that this year would be different. But as a wise person reminds me- hope isn’t a business plan. So when a coworker suggested I apply for a charity team that is in line with my values and interests (you won’t be surprised to hear what charity) I applied there too. Two chances had to be better than one?! After submitting my application, I had the most lovely follow up conversation with the organization. They loved my passion and the fact that my marathon running/fundraising is a family affair and on Thursday, October 30 they offered me a bib for the 2026 Boston Marathon! To say I’m excited is an understatement. The boys are excited- Jeffrey is excited that I’m excited.

Fun fact, that original charity, the one that said no in 2024. They reached out on October 31 and offered me a bib. Ironic, right? I share this to say- that this is 100% my year for Boston. It was meant to be. Shortly, I will reach out and decline the October 31 offer and make someone on the waitlist very happy!! I will forever support that charity and their mission.

I have run the NYC and Chicago Marathons for the Alzheimer’s Association and in memory of my dad. Incredibly meaningful and the most important why for which I could run. I’m forever grateful for the opportunity and the fact that I could honor him in that way. It’s time for a new chapter.

Big reveal- For the Boston Marathon, I will be running for a new charity. One that I truly believe my dad would be excited for me to get behind and hopefully he will be pushing me up Heartbreak Hill- One that excites me and is still very near to my heart. One that my boys are excited about and thinking about ways that they can help with the fundraising efforts. One that involves…wait for it…books! I can’t think of a time in my life that books weren’t a part of it. If you were to visit our home, you might ask if it was actually a library. The first place C visits when he gets to school each day…the library. When I was completing my application for the marathon I reflected on all of my school librarians from elementary through high school and how I can vividly remember volunteering in the library The card catalog to digital library. I’m the secretary of the Jewish Library of Baltimore- because books and access to books is so very important. So, no surprise I’m running the 130th Boston Marathon for the Boston Public Library Fund!

I’m truly excited for this opportunity. For the fun we will have as a family to fundraise so that the Boston Public Library can continue to provide the amazing services that they do to the Boston community. Running the literal unicorn of marathons is once in a lifetime opportunity. I can’t wait to share the journey from beginning to end!

2024 the Reading Adventure Continues

Reading is a hobby, it’s a passion, it’s a love. And amazingly it’s being passed on to our boys who were gifted Kindles for the holidays and are constantly adding new things to be read. Yes, I know I was a HUGE proponent of reading “real” books. I also have shelves and shelves of unread “real” books and boxes of books that I have read. I’m not trying to flip flop on you, I’m pivoting (another favorite word) to what has proven to be exponentially easier for every day and quite honestly for travel. This is not to say I won’t read a “real” book every now and then as I remain a committed Book of the Month subscriber, but I’m saying it seems to be easier to read on my Kindle not only for my eyes but for the ability to easily always have it with me.

The next challenge is how in the heck am I going to document books read this year??? I was consistent about updating my blog last year until about June and then the wheels fell off the cart. I have since gone through and provided reviews for most of the books that I read in 2023. I’m moving to electronic journaling and planning for 2024 and along with that came my introduction to Goodnotes. I’m using the platform to keep track of books and to create reviews. It’s still a work in progress so there might be some adjustments as the year goes on.

So, what’s on the horizon for 2024. My goal is to read 80 books. Again, I would like to read a book that starts with every letter of the alphabet. It’s a fun challenge. This year I’m also embarking on The Ultimate Reading Challenge. There are twenty-five prompts and challenges to complete throughout the year along with little prizes within. Think attend a book club or go to an author event. Read a childhood favorite. I’m excited to give this a try. Really, what I need is about a week on the beach with a fruity cocktail and a huge stack of books. But, since this is real life I will continue to squeeze reading in around mumming, working and all the other things.

After much consideration I think that the easiest way to keep track of the books read this year is in chronological order. At the end I will keep a running list by letter of the alphabet in case you are looking for a book that beings with a particular letter. Each year I experiment a little more with the “best” way to do this and somehow keep coming up with new ways. Hopefully this will work for this year! Check back for updates…hopefully more frequently than 2023 or better yet follow along on Goodreads or Instagram (@KJoyBlav).

Book 1- The Lost Apothecary

Book 2 The Amazing Grace Adams

Book 3

Running Alphabetical List of 2024 Reads

A

Amazing Grace Adams

C

Confessions of a forty-something f##k up

L

The Lost Apothecary

Peloton Bike one year later…it’s safe to say I LOVE it!

How oh how is it the end of November? And how oh how have I failed to write a blog post this year other than updating with the books that I have been reading?? Yikes, I didn’t even keep up with that completely. Well, no time like the present. No need to wait until 2024 to get back on the writing horse.

Life looked incredibly different when I started this blog in January of 2020. Stop and pause for a moment. The world was a completely different place in January of 2020. It was in a time before COVID. It was a time before going back to work full time. It was a time when I was just thinking about running a marathon. It was a time before my dad died. So much has happened in the last four years. But that’s not the purpose of this post. In the coming weeks when I figure out what I’m going to use this platform for going forward I’m sure there will be a fully reflective piece. Maybe more about travel and some of our favorite places, definitely more about books and author events. Maybe some reflection/opinion pieces…apparently I have a lot of opinions about a lot of things. To be determined!

In the meantime, today my Peloton bike and I celebrated our one year anniversary. One year ago I was in a personal fitness slump. Running felt like work. I was neglecting my strength training and I was eager to give something else a try. An avid user of the Peloton App for runs and strength, I had thought about getting the bike for well over a year and it was finally time. To say there’s been no looking back is an understatement. Two hundred and fifty-two rides later I would say I’m committed to cycling! Spoiler alert- I don’t like to ride a bike outside. We will occasionally rent bikes on vacation and generally I don’t enjoy it, but give me a stationary bike and apparently I can ride for HOURS! So what did the last year look like? It looked like balance. Balance between cycling, strength training, walking and running. Yes, there was even a little bit of running this year. While I thought I thrived with a training regime for races, after three marathons in three years that started to feel like pressure rather than guidance. I love that I can decide in the morning what I want to do in the amount of time that I have for that given day. And a shocking revelation, especially over the last several months is that I’m gravitating towards strength training over cardio. This is a major deviation from my cardio focused self and I think will be the focus of 2024. Stronger is better! Let’s get strong together! The swivel screen on the bike makes do strength classes that much easier. With options from 5 minutes to an hour there are so many different options. If a half hour or 45 minutes feels too overwhelming the fact that I can do a quick fifteen or twenty minutes is so helpful. So what will the future bring? I still have no races on the horizon. I had serious FOMO on NYC Marathon day, but a few weeks removed and I’m not feeling that burning desire to run another marathon. Figuring out balance is one of life’s great mysteries. Maybe, just maybe it seems I’ve figured out my fitness balance that makes me happy and keeps me moving.

A New Reading Challenge for 2023

A fresh new year of reading goals are underway! I’m so excited for many books coming out this year and eager to make a dent in my every growing TBR book shelf. What started out as a few books has basically grown to take up an entire shelf. So many books, so little time!! So how to get to those books that have been sitting on the to be read shelf a little bit longer than they should. Well, I’m so glad that you asked…a reading challenge of course. While scrolling Instagram in late December I stumbled upon a suggestion to read a book title for every letter of the alphabet. I love a good challenge. That and I would love to clear out some of the books that had been sitting around longer than they should. This challenge will get me to read the books I might have been ignoring for new ones that have be released. Don’t worry, I’m still going to read plenty of new releases, but I’m going to try to read a book that starts with each letter of the alphabet along the way.

For the last two years I’ve struggled with the best way to share thoughts on the books that I have read. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to give more in depth reviews, do a post each month with what I had read, then put it into a longer post for year. So here we are, I’m going to organize my books read alphabetically. I don’t think time is going to allow for more in depth reviews. But we shall see. Click on the letter below to be taken to that letter of the alphabet to see what book(s) I have read. Will you join me in trying to read a book for each letter of the alphabet?? You can also follow me over on Goodreads to see what is on my growing TBR list! Happy Reading!

A | B | C | D | E | F | G | H | I | J | K | L | M | N | O | P | Q | R | S | T | U | V | W | X | Y | Z

28 Summers, by Elin Hilderbrand (June 15-June 17)

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter A

All the Dangerous Things, Stacy Willingham (January 2- January 7)

A mystery, thriller gem from Stacy Willingham. She kept me on my toes with all of the different sub plots. Everything was woven together beautifully and tied up with a bow a the end. A great read!! Four ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Apples Never Fall, by Liane Moriarty (May 23-May 29)

Apples Never Fall was on my TBR list for well over a year. There were so many layers in this book. Family. Expectations. Giving up one’s dream. Family first. it’s a long read, but worth it. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

A Little Ray of Sunshine, by Kristan Higgins (September 13-September 20)

This was my first book by higgins and definitely will not be my last. Think family secret, adoption, unrequited love and thinking the best of people. So much of life on the pages of this book. highly recommend. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

The Assignment, by Liza Wiemer (November 7-November 8)

I had the pleasure of meeting wiemer and discussing this book as part of book club at school. An important read not only on the topic of ANTISEMITISM, but also injustice. The importance in being vocal and speaking out about injustice. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Books that begin with the letter B

By a Thread, Lucy Score (March 16-March 19)

I dusted off my Kindle recently for a trip. And I took advantage of Kindle Unlimited to get this gem by Lucy Score. She has quickly become a favorite author. While her language is colorful and there are more than a few bedroom scenes in her books, i enjoy how she takes seemingly real people, like Ally and brings them to life. Thrown into the romance and managing life was the fact that Ally’s dad was suffering from dementia. Again, anyone who can make 500 plus pages fly by must be doing something right!! 4 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Bad Girl Reputation, by Elle Kennedy (August 21-August 26)

Back to reading on my kindle- taking advantage of the libby app and kindle unlimited. Again- this was good- not great, but kept me hooked enough to anticipate book three in the series. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Breakaway, by Jennifer Weiner (October 1-October 6)

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Burnout, by Sophie Kinsella (November 16-November 19)

As you would imagine this is a book about a woman is completely burnt out! Amazing things can happen when two burnt out people connect at a RAMSHACKLE resort on the british seaside. taking a break to REEVALUATE life in a romantic comedy. great read. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Bright Lights, Big Christmas, by Mary Kay Andrews (November 25-November 25)

Andrews does it again. I’m a sucker for a holiday romantic comedy and this was another home run. I laughed and i cried and fell in love with the characters. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter C

Camp Zero, Michelle Min Sterling (April 10-April 16)

This was well outside my normal reads. It was also the April Read with Jenna selection. The best thing I can say about this book is i’m done reading it. 2 ⭐️ ⭐️

The Celebrants, by Steven Rowley (May 30-June 7)

A book about friendship, a pact, knowing who your people are and knowing you are loved. Also a read with Jenna selection. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Cassandra in Reverse, by Holly Smale (August 3-August 6)

I had high hopes for this book. It was Reese’s Book club Pick for June. I must admit, I thought it fell flat. it was redundant and UNNECESSARILY complicated. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Culture Code: The Secrets of Highly Successful Groups, by Daniel Coyle (July 3-August 14)

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Books that begin with the letter D

The Dead Romantics, by Ashley Poston (August 9-August 14)

I laughed. I cried. I’m attached to florence and ben. Another do yourself a favor and read this book! ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Books that begin with the letter E

Evidence of the Affair, Taylor Jenkins Reid (February 27-February 28)

As a huge fan of TJR it was time to read this story, a collection of letters between a wife who learns that her husband is cheating and the husband of the cheating wife. Another Amazing work by Reid, with a twist at the end that I didn’t see coming!! Do yourself a favor and read Evidence of the Affair. 5 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter F

Forever Never, by Lucy Score (May 10-May 17)

3 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Finlay Donovan is Killing It, Elle Coimano (February 7-February 12)

This book has been sitting on my TBR shelf for a very long time. It is book one of a three part series. The third book came out in the beginning of february. I love a good series and decided it was time to finally read this mystery. I really struggled with how I felt about this book as i was reading it. Finaly donovan has been getting great reviews, but i found the first half of the book slow and the best way to describe how i felt when i was reading is stressed. i plowed through more to just get it done than because i really cared about the outcome. while tempted to give the other books in the series a try- i’m more inclined to keep working through my tbr first. Three ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Five Star Weekend, by Elin Hilderbrand (June 19-June 24)

If you were going to invite five friends from a different stage in your life for a weekend together- who would you include? The Five Star Weekend is about just that…and some twists, turns and drama along the way. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, by Patrick Lencioni (July 24-July 25)

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter G

Good Girl Complex, by Elle Kennedy (August 19-August 20)

This is the first book in the Avalon series by kennedy. I wouldn’t say I loved it- but i definitely enjoyed it enough and felt invested enough in the characters to read all three books. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Good Bad Girl, by Alice Feeney (October 27-November 1)

Buckle up this thriller will keep you on your toes. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter H

Happy Place, by Emily Henry (May 7-May 10)

I love Emily Henry’s books! Happy Place, is no exception. This was an easy and enjoyable read. I was invested in the characters and eager to find out what happens. I also enjoyed the Theme of doing what makes you happy. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Half Moon, by Mary Beth Keane (June 8-June 11)

This was my first book by Keane. I’m thankful to Book of the month for introducing me to new to me authors. A quick and enjoyable read with great character development. loss, love, infertility- Keane covered it all. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Hello Stranger, by Katherine Center (July 16-July 18)

Hello Stranger is a fun, quick read that will make you feel good and quite honestly return your faith in humanity! ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Books that begin with the letter I

I’m Glad My Mom Died, Jennette McCurdy (February 28-March 8)

When I was in NY in January I felt like this book was everywhere! So I picked up a copy at Strand Bookstore. When I finally had a chance to read it, I had to remove the book jacket since the boys kept asking why anyone would be glad their mom died. My response- it’s complicated. Jennette McCurdy masterfully shared about her complicated relationship with her mother and her body. Definitely different from my normal reads, but I found her book insightful and thought provoking. 4 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter J

Just My Type, by Falon Ballard (November 23-November 24)

Old flames reunite in the journalism world. one must look deep and EVALUATE there ability to function without being in a relationship, while the other must stop being a bachelor. Through a competition into the mix. a fun read, with well developed characters. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter K

Kiss Her Once for Me, by Alison Cochrun (November 19-November 22)

Another that had been on my TBR pile for quite some time. A delightful rom com with a twist. a combination of loveable, yet flawed characters will have you eager to keep reading. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter L

Love and Other Words, Christina Lauren (February 13-February 15)

I was invested in the characters of Love and Other Words from the first few pages of reading. unlike my last book that made me feel stressed while i was reading, i found myself smiling was i was reading this book! I’m sad the book is over. It was a quick and fun read With an unexpected twist. A Five ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The London Seance Society, by Sarah Penner (March 19-March 26)

Mystery, murder, intrigue, Seances and love. lots packed into this gem of a book set in 1800s london. This was not my TRADITIONAL pick, but i loved it. 5 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Lonely Hearts Book Club, by Lucy Gilmore (October 13-October 21)

I LOVED this book! A librarian, a curmudgeon, life, death, love. All the things are on the pages of this absolute gem! ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Lease on Love, by Falon Ballard (December 21-December 26)

Read one book by a new author that I love then I find their other books. After I read Just my Type moved Lease on love up on my TBR. Somewhat predictable mixed with twists and turns.⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter M

Maame, Jessica George (February 19-February 26)

This was another REad with Jenna pick and as a bonus it was also Book of the month. While fiction, this definitely read more like a memoir. I love stepping out of my normal genres and trying something news. A coming of age story that also explores grief, love and life. Give Maame a try if you are looking for a debut author and a book that will get you thinking!

My Favorite Half-Night Stand, Christina Lauren (February 26-February 27)

Christina Lauren is one of my go to authors when I am looking for a fun, light read that I can finish in one to two days. I stayed up way to late finishing My Favorite Half-Night Stand. I just needed a resolution for Millie and Reid.

Maybe Someday, by Colleen Hoover (April 16-April 19), Maybe Not, by Colleen Hoover (April 20-April 20), Maybe Now, by Colleen Hoover (April 20-April 23)

None of these books were life changing, however they were fun and quick reads with enjoyable characters and I would highly recommend reading them. Overall 4 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Meet Me at the Lake, by Carley Fortune (May 1-May 6)

This is another hit by Fortune. All the feels with this book and a quick read. highly recommend.⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Mad Honey, by Jodi Piccoult (July 20-July 24)

Powerful, Riveting, thought provoking. A dynamic book. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

The Many Lives of Mama Love: A memoir of Lying, Stealing, Writing and Healing, by Lara Love Hardin (August 30-September 1)

I tried to read one or two memoirs a year. Given my criminal justice background Hardin’s book attracted my interest. Major take aways are that we shouldn’t judge someone when they are at their worst. people can change for the better. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter N

Nora Goes Off Script, by Annabel Monaghan (August 7-August 8)

Reading Annabel Monaghan feels like catching up with an old friend. I laughed, I cried. I highly recommend this quick and enjoyable read.⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

None of This is True, by Lisa Jewell (September 2-September 3)

This was a gem of a thriller from jewell. jewell has you guessing until the end. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Books that begin with the letter O

One Fire Island, by Jane Rosen (June 13-June 15)

I laughed. I cried. I channeled my childhood visits to Fire Island. Hands down a must read. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

The Only One Left, by Riley Sager (October 21-October 27)

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Books that begin with the letter P

Pineapple Street, by Jenny Jackson (March 26-March 31)

I’m not quite sure what I was expecting with this book. it is a book about the 1% and their trials and tribulations with rhe rest of the world. It was a quick and light read, but not overly thought provoking. 3.5 stars rounded up to ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Pack Up the Moon, by Kristan Higgins (November 5-November 11)

This book left me initially speechless. imagine you know that you are going to die and your write a letter to your spouse for every month after you are gone. a truly touching story about love, grief and moving on after loss. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter Q

The Queen’s Gambit, by Walter Tevis (December 26-December 30)

I was in search of a book that began with the letter Q to complete my 2023 reading challenge. the queen’s gambit came up more than once as a suggestion. i wasn’t sure i was going to like it. surprisingly i loved it. i enjoyed the development of the characters and even the exploration of the game of chess. a surprising win. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter R

The Reunion, Kayla Olson (January 22-January 30)

A popular show, think Dawson’s Creek has a reunion fourteen years after the last episode. A light, fun read yet with some emphasis on making hard life choices weher it relates to love and career. While this book started a little slow, the second half really picked up and I couldn’t put it down. A solid 3.5 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ rounded to four ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Romantic Comedy, by Curtis Sittenfeld (April 24-April 30)

This took me a little bit to get into. Might have been that I was just overtired when I was trying to read. Ultimately, I really enjoyed it. It wasn’t your typical romantic comedy as there were some twists and turns along the way. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Resurrection Walk, by Michael Connelly (December 16-December 18)

Connelly is one of my must read authors. i especially love the Bosch/haller books. This was another winner as the dynamic duo work to uncover those who have been wrongly convicted. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Books that begin with the letter S

Sam, Allegra Goodman (January 20-January 21)

Sam, was the read with Jenna pick for the month of January. I was intrigued by the plot and since i’m trying to read new authors i was happy for the suggestion. I couldn’t put this book down. Allegra Goodman pulled me into the book and into the lives of the characters. The characters were so real that I was eager to keep reading to find out what was going to happen next. A coming of age story for Sam with many twists and turns. I highly recommend Sam! Five ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Same Time Next Summer, by Annabel Monaghan (June 12-June 13)

This was the perfect beach read. I loved this book from beginning to end. The fact that it takes place on Long Island was an added bonus. Love, lost love, finding yourself and doing what brings you joy. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Sixth Wedding, by Elin Hilderbrand (June 18-June 18)

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Simply Lies, by David Baldacci (July 8-July 15)

This was a 400 plus page book that kept me on my toes. I almost felt like I needed a score card to keep everyone straight. Hoping this is a new series from Baldacci!!⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Someone Else’s Shoes, by Jodi Moyes (July 25-July 30)

This sat on my TBR shelf for quite a while, depite buying it as soon as it came out. It was good, not great. I am glad I read it- but honestly it was long and over 400 pages. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Summer Girl, by Elle Kennedy (September 20-October 1)

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Books that begin with the letter T

Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, by Gabrielle Zevin (March 31-April 4)

I must admit that I held off on reading this book because of the gaming component. Ultimately it was one of my favorite books that I’ve read in a very long time. I was drawn to the characters. While the undercurrent of the book is about gaming; it is really a book about life. The people who come into our lives for a specific purpose. A very thought provoking read. 5 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Things We Never Got Over, Lucy Score (February 16-February 18)

I can’t tell you how long I’ve been holding onto this book. Again, the sequel is coming out in a few days so I knew it was time to finally read it. Oh my! How have I not read any of Lucy Score’s books before?? Although this book is nearly 600 pages I finished in just two days. I couldn’t put it down. I stayed up way too late to finish and was not disappointed. I’m sad I need to wait a few days for the next book in the series. Highly recommend this book if you aren’t afraid by some colorful language. a 5 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ read for me!

Things We Hide from the Light, Lucy Score (March 10-March 16)

I have very quickly become a lucy score fan!! Reading three of her books in just over a month. Not going to like there’s quite a bit of foul language and some graphic sex scenes but I truly love the way she develops her characters. I absolutely love Nash, Knox, Naomi, Lina and the gang of Knockemout, Virginia. Now I must anxiously await the thrird book in the series that comes out in September. Only Lucy Score could make 500 plus pages fly by! 5 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The True Love Experiment, by Christina Lauren (May 19-May 23)

Christina Lauren books are my go to when I want a quick and fun read. i was eager to keep reading The True Love Experiment to find out what happens to Connor and fizzy. There was some predictability, but still a great book. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Things We Left Behind, by Lucy Score (September 6-September 11)

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Things You Save in a Fire, by Katherine Center (December 2-December 4)

After discovering katherine center i’m going back and reading some of her earlier books. her character development is great. i’m always eager to find out what is going to happen to the characters. there are usually tears, smiles and laughs along the way. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Troubles in Paradise, by Elin Hilderbrand (December 19-December 20)

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter U

The Unsinkable Greta James, by Jennifer E. Smith (December 5-December 10)

after the loss of her mother Greta james finds herself on what would have been her parents anniversary alaska cruise with her father, with whom she has a strained relationship. an examination of grief, love, life choices and family. maybe i enjoyed this more than others becasue we cruise annual, but this was a winner for me. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Books that begin with the letter V

(The) Villa, Rachel Hawkins (January 15-January 18)

rachel hawkins has become one of my must read authors. i pre-ordered The Villa and I couldn’t wait to read it. I must be honest, I was underwhelmed. I had high expectations after reading Reckless Girls and her witchy romance books that she writes under a pen name. While The Villa was good, it felt rushed at the end as though Hawkins was in a hurry for it to be over. I did however enjoy the multiple perspectives and the back and forth from the 70s to the present day. So all in all a Good, not a great read. Three ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter W

Winter Stroll, Elin Hilderbrand (January 1-January 2)

Book 2 of the winter series. Winter Stroll offered so many emotions and left me eager for the next book. I’m so happy that I was late to the party so to speak on this series so that I could read them one after the other. SEt in Nantucket, like many of Hilderbrand’s other books I’ve added nantucket to our summer vacation list! I can’t wait to see what will happen next for the Quinn family. Five ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Winter Storms, Elin Hilderbrand (January 8 – January 11)

Book 3 in the Winter Series: In Winter Storms, it’s clear that Hilderbrand is setting us up for a more series final book. While the quinns are trying to hold everything together you know more is about to come. Signs of a good series that you are eager to read the next book. Four ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Winter Solstice, Elin Hilderbrand (January 11- January 14)

Book 4 in the Winter Series: I was bracing myself for the series to come to an end and knew for certain I would shed tears. Hilderbrand did not disappoint with the final book in the winter series. My only disappointment is that the series is over and I will miss the Quinn family! Four ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

What Lies in the Woods, Kate Alice Marshall (January 31-February 6)

I haven’t read a truly unnerving thriller in quite a while. What lies in the Woods was intense to say the very least. Often I have a pretty good sense of the “who did it” as I am reading. I must admit, this one kept me on my toes, never quite sure who was friend and who was foe. Five ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Wishing Game, by Meg Shaffer (July 2-July 8)

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Winter in Paradise, by Elin Hilderbrand (November 11-November 16)

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

What Happens in Paradise, Elin Hilderbrand (November 25-December 2)

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

A Winter in New York, by Josie Silver (December 20-December 21)

Last year, I read my first book by josie silver and she became a must read author. i love ny and what could be better than a winter in NY. an examination of family dynamics, love, lost love and so much more. you won’t be disappointed in this book.⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Books that begin with the letter X

XOXO, Cody: An Opinionated Homosexual’s Guide to Self Love, by Cody Rigsby (December 10-December 16)

a book of cody-isms. This was completely what i expected- a fun read with cody’s personality shining through. i enjoyed learning more of his back story along the way. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter Y

Yours Truly, Abby Jimenez (April 7-April 9)

As with Jimenez’s other books I just couldn’t put this book down. The characters felt real and had real life “stuff” happen to them. Jimemez tackls a lot of real life issues in an easy read. 5 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter Z

Zero Days, by Ruth Ware (June 24-July 2)

This was my first by Ware and won’t be my last. Jack is on the run as the primary suspect in her husband’s murder. She’s desperate to prove her innocence while finding the true killer. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

It’s time to ride! The pivot from running to spinning.

In January of 2019 I didn’t say I want to run marathons. I said, I want to move for thirty minutes a day. One thing led to another and before I knew it I wanted to run a half marathon. I trained and ran one half, then two, then Covid happened. Before I knew it I had my head in the marathon game. In October I ran my third marathon in two years. Marathon one- virtual NYC marathon in my neighborhood during Covid. Marathon two- the real deal NYC marathon and Marathon three the Chicago Marathon. Each experience was unique. Each training cycle focused on running for those who can’t and raising important dollars for the Alzheimer’s Association. Life has changed since January of 2019…you think? Covid was a game changer. But I also went back to work full time. Making the time to train was a fine balance. Even with a flexible training plan there are still only so many hours in the day to get all the miles in. Training for a marathon is in essence a part time job on top of being a mom, wife and a full time job. Don’t get me wrong I love the routine of a training plan. I love having the goal of a race in mind. I absolutely love the moments before the start in knowing I did all that I could to run the best race possible. Not to mention that absolute joy of crossing the finish line. All that said, after the Chicago marathon I was just burnt out from the pressure of hitting my mileage. Physically I felt fine. I was blessed with another injury free training cycle. How lucky am I that my body enables me to put it under such extreme conditions? Mentally, I had ZERO motivation to run…Zero! I still ran a few times after Chicago and before November 12 because I was running a half marathon. But I literally did the absolute minimum. Don’t get me wrong I love the One Peloton app with the wide variety of runs that get me moving. My heart just wasn’t in it.

What to do?? Fair question. For over a year I had been looking at the Peloton Bike. I would put it in my cart and take it back out. In the cart. Take it out. After my half marathon in November, I had no other races on the books. The time was right. Plus a huge early Black Friday sale from Peloton made it a done deal. November 25th, the day after Thanksgiving the bike arrived. I was so darn excited. Literally did a live ride within an hour of the bike arriving. It was on! I was excited again. I was ready to get my groove back.

Kelly got her groove back! In January of 2022 I started using the One Peloton app with my non Peloton treadmill. I loved it. It pushed me to try new things on the tread and honestly allowed me to do all of my marathon training indoors. I have my favorite trainers. It’s fun to follow them on Instagram and to be cheered on by the One Peloton community. I enjoy hitting milestones. But there is something different about doing Peloton classes on a Peloton device. Peloton started with the bike and has added on other options such as tread, rowing, strength etc. There are significantly more bike classes. And way more live class options.

While on the app I could see others that were there, I was never really sure who I was seeing, I knew I wasn’t seeing everyone who was in the class and I couldn’t rank on the leader board. As someone who might be just a little competitive I enjoy the extra push that the leaderboard provides.

The spin screen on the bike is a game changer. I’m back into doing strength classes and no longer have to use my phone or iPad. It’s seemingly a small change but makes big difference.

I know what you are thinking…the novelty hasn’t worn off yet or I’m still in Peloton Bike honeymoon phase. But that isn’t it at all. First it’s been two months. After two months of being inconsistent after the Chicago marathon I’m back into a routine and being consistent. I’m energized and eager to work out in the morning again. That is not to say that getting up at 5:00 in the morning is an enjoyable experience, but I truly have a better day after I exercise. Additionally, I’m not just spinning. I’m strength training and consistently walking 2-3 days a week. I’m enjoying power walking and the hikes on the Peloton App. I’m back to having some variety in my exercise, back to some cross training and strength training.

While at dinner with friends last night we chatted a little about upcoming races and racing plans. I still have zero races on the calendar. When asked how that made me feel, I was surprised how much I was at peace with that decision. I anticipate I will get some series FOMO as the races approach, but until then I’m going to enjoy the variety of my exercise routing, be grateful that I can exercise and move my body for 30 minutes each day. That is my main fitness goal for 2023. Not 1000 miles, not a marathon. Move for at least 30 minutes each day. You know what, some days like yesterday I exercise for nearly two hours. But then some days like today I’ll take a 30 minute power walk. It’s all about balance and enjoying what you are doing! If your fitness routine has stopped bringing you joy- don’t be afraid to try something new!

December 2022 Books in Review

It’s hard to believe that 2022 is nearly over. How is that possible? I’m well aware of the phrase “the days are long, but the years are short.” Yet, it somehow feels like the years are flying by at warp speed. I’m so glad that I’ve made reading a regular part of my days again. I set out to read at least a book a week. I’m pleasantly surprised to see that I have surpassed that goal by more than twelve books. That said, the month isn’t nearly over. Plus it’s winter break. I look forward to adding several more books to this December books in review.

Lessons in Chemistry, by Bonnie Garmus (December 3-December 7)

Lessons in Chemistry, is a book that was all over the place this year. Barnes and Noble Book of the Year. Hyped in many book pages. It was on rotation on my TBR stack until it was the book club read at work. I’m so grateful that I got that push to finally move this books up on my reading list. It was AWESOME. Many books aren’t worth all the hype. The strong, determined female protagonist in this book tackled so many life topics. While set in the 50s/early 60s many of them still apply today. This is definitely on my MUST READ list!!

In a Holidaze, by Christina Lauren (December 11-December 12)

We are entering the holiday reading stage of the year. I have a serious stack of a variety of holiday books. Kicked off the feel good, romance holiday book reading with In a Holidaze. Not going to lie, I was a little confused by the start of this one and it took me a little while to get into it, however once I did it was a fun, feel good read. This gem pushes us to think about what we really want in life and how our path can be changed by one decision or choice. A fun read, but probably not my favorite from Christina Lauren.

The Matzah Ball, by Jean Meltzer (December 15-December 17)

What, a Hanukkah romance book?? Indeed this is a book with Jewish humor, food, talk about Hanukkah and more. Doesn’t everyone deserve the opportunity fo find their true love? Is it possible as an adult that your one true love is your summer camp archenemy? You’ll have to read to find out. Such a perfect way to kick off Hanukkah with this book by Jean Meltzer.

The Santa Suit, by Mary Kay Andrews (December 18-December 18)

The best way to describe this quick read from Mary Kay Andrews- is a Hallmark Movie in book form. The beauty of winter break allowed me to stay up super late and read this in one day. It was a great addition to the holiday book trend I was going for in December.

One Day in December, by Josie Silver (December 20-December 22)

Let the holiday book reading continue!! One Day in December was my favorite of the holiday reads. It includes a little bit of friendship, love, family and London (one of my favorite places to visit!). 5 star read that I highly recommend.

This Time Tomorrow, by Emma Straub (December 23-December 23)

What happens when your flight gets canceled and you find yourself on a coach bus for 19 hours to your destination. You have the chance to read a book that has been on your to be read list for over a year in one day. This was a very emotional read for me and I’m glad I gave it some distance from my dad passing. It was thought provoking and a tear jerker for sure. I’m so very glad I had the opportunity to enjoy it all in one day. Another must read recommendation!

Winter Street, by Elin Hilderbrand (December 23-December 26)

Back to winter themed books. I stumbled upon this oldie but goodie series of four books from Elin Hilderbrand. I brought the first two with me on vacation and then was sure to order the final two to have to read as soon as I returned. I enjoyed the “realness” of the characters and their life struggles. The first book introduces us to the family and makes you eager to keep reading. So glad I was late to the party on these as I was able to read them in quick succession and not have to wait for a new one to be released.

The Perfect Marriage, by Jeneva Rose (December 27-December 28)

Added a thriller to the feel good, holiday book reading. This one was a gift, so I added it to my books to take away. I would say it was good. Not great. I’m not disappointed that I read it, but there are better thriller, who done it books out there. That said, we never know when we are going to stumble upon an author that we love and I appreciate reading new to me authors and books.

The Great Alone, by Kristin Hannah (December 28-December 31)

A heavy book to get to seventy books for the year. This Kristin Hannah book had been on my to be read shelf for…basically forever. I’m not sure why I kept skipping over it. While the subject matter is intense, her writing is divine. You feel as though you have been transported into the book. While this is a long read, I was determined to get it done to finish up the year, that and I couldn’t put it down. Will have to make sure I don’t neglect her other books on my TBR list for so long. If you haven’t read The Great Alone, please do. It’s amazing!

October and November 2022 Books in Review

Since it is November 27 when I am sitting down to put together my October books in review it seems logical to combine October and November into one post. October was a super busy “life” month which translated to a super slow reading month. Granted I ran a marathon and had a major event at work, but I only read three books. I got really close to finishing a fourth but I just didn’t make it. I should note one of the three books that I read was 688 pages, so that should really count for at least two to two and a half books. In November I more than made up for my “slow” reading October. I love finding some extra time to read!

Eight Hundred Grapes, by Laura Dave (September 27-October 2)

Dave became one of those authors that I wanted to read her “backlist” of books. While this was a good book, it fell short of great and wasn’t my favorite by Dave. I gave it a solid 3.5 stars rounded up to 4 stars. This book did inspire me to want to visit wine country.

The Winners, by Fredrik Backman (October 2-October 23)

I have been waiting and waiting for the final book in the Beartown series from Backman. His books are nothing short of amazing and The Winners did not disappoint. While it was 688 pages long and it took me the better part of the month to read…life got in the way. Backman has this amazing way to pull at your emotions in ways you didn’t think possible by a book. I finished this one when the boys were out, so they missed my full on ugly crying. Another 5 stars for Backman!

It Starts with Us, by Colleen Hoover (October 23-October 24)

Colleen Hoover has the amazing ability to write a book that must be read in basically a day. It Ends with Us, the prequel to It Starts with Us, was an emotional tear jerker for sure and I couldn’t wait to read the next chapter in Atlas and Lily’s lives. The much anticipated sequel was again full of raw emotion, but some unanticipated twists and turns along the way. Another 5 star Colleen Hoover rating!

The Ex Hex, by Erin Sterling (October 24-November 1)

Not once in a 1000 years did I think I would be reading a book about witches. Witches?? Erin Sterling is really Rachel Hawkins. She writes under a pen name?! Who knew. I love her other books and I was intrigued by the synopsis of a Halloween themed, romance books. I’m so glad that I gave it a try!! This was a fun, light read especially for Halloween week. I highly recommend giving this one a read!

The Kiss Curse, by Erin Sterling (November 10-November 11)

Two witch- romance books in one month? But of course. The reason I learned about The Ex Hex was because this new book The Kiss Curse was coming out and I picked them both up from Book of the Month. This is the beauty of Book of the Month, getting introduced to new books, new authors and thinking outside the box with the books that I select. I devoured The Kiss Curse in just about a day, so it’s fair to say that it was a quick and fun read. Thank you Erin Sterling for giving me two fall favorites!!

The Family Game, by Catherine Steadman (November 11-November 18)

After two witch themed romance books I thought I would go back to my wheelhouse of thriller/mystery genre books. This was my 24th Book of the Month book on the year. It was intense. It was interesting. But, I would say that it was just good, not great. I’m not disappointed that I read it, but I won’t necessarily seek out other books by Steadman when I already have so many on my TBR list.

Desert Star, by Michael Connelly (November 20-November 23)

Michael Connelly is one of my must read authors. I’ve read all of his books. Bosch and Ballard are two of my favorite characters and I had my calendar marked for when this book was released. I made the mistake of starting it the week of Thanksgiving. I got completely sucked into the book and found myself preparing Thanksgiving dinner and unable to put the book down. Another gem by Connelly. A who done it, with political spins and a tug on heartstrings. 5 stars, must read!

In a New York Minute, by Kate Spencer (November 25-November 25)

After an intense and emotional read with Desert Star, I needed a feel good romance book and In a New York Minute did not disappoint. The Friday after Thanksgiving was basically my recovery from the crazy week day and I plowed through this book. It left me smiling. This sat for my TBR shelf for way too long. I wish I had read it sooner, but so glad I finally read it.

Something Wilder, by Christina Lauren (November 26-November 30)

I’ve been working to get through some of my “older” TBR books. Something Wilder is one of those books. The dynamic duo of Christina and Lauren combined a little mystery with a romantic book. It’s a winning combination. I promptly went and ordered some additional Christina Lauren books for winter break. Stay tuned because you’ll hear more from me about their books in the coming weeks.

Wait a second, you ran a half marathon?

That was the response I got from more than one person after running the Rocky Run in Philadelphia, November 12. Oh, just a little half marathon?! I literally hadn’t said much about it and quite honestly wasn’t even sure I was going to run. Following the Chicago Marathon I was exhausted. While my body felt well enough to run, I was super busy at work and filled in my mornings with extra work rather than running. Not to mention, I just really didn’t feel like running…at all. So from October 9, the Chicago Marathon and November 12 the Rocky Run I ran a total of 19 miles. 19. Eek. While I was seriously wondering how I was going to run 13.1 miles after basically not training, I wasn’t alone. In the car on our way up to Philly my nine year old who doesn’t miss a thing, asked me how exactly I thought I was going to run a half marathon after not running so much for the last month. Very good question, son- very good question!!

Truth be told if our friends weren’t also heading to Philly I would have totally bailed on the race. However, I’m glad that we kept our plans as scheduled. I should note it wasn’t a typical half marathon. It was, what I’m convinced my dad would have called a half marathon the hard way. A 5k followed by a short break and then 10 miles. My plan was to take it easy on the 5k so as to not use up too much energy before the 10 miles. But, it was too hard not to race the 5k. I haven’t run a 5k in years. I still kept it somewhat under control, but certainly went out harder than I had intended. I ran the 5k in 26:00. Not a PR, but certainly not “slow.” After a fifteen minute or so break it was time to start the 10 miler. I should note that it was unseasonably warm in Philadelphia for November. It was practically 70 degrees with 80% humidity. Who would have thought?? Far from ideal race conditions as far as my body is concerned.

Over the years I’ve learned to pay more attention to my heart rate. I have breathing tricks to help regulate it when I know it’s higher than I would like. Nothing was doing the trick during the 10 miler. My heart rate was high and even my tricks weren’t really bringing it down. It would be at a time when you are worried about not feeling 100% that you realize the medical personnel were few and far between along the course. The course itself was relatively flat and enjoyable. But there was little to no crowd support so it was a touch boring. So glad I brought my headphones and I enjoyed music along the way.

I literally had no expectations going into the race. The plan was to finish and have an enjoyable day exploring Philly with our friends. And alas that’s exactly what I did. I still managed a sub two hour half- 1:57:12. My 5k clearly being the faster portion of my race, but the 10 miles still at a respectable pace. We all know I’m all about the stats. How did things shake out??

In the 5K there were 5823 runners. I placed 643rd. Not too shabby. There were 2874 female runners. I placed 122nd. In my age group of 40-44 there were 389 runners and I placed 15th. Well that was better than expected. In the 10 mile there were 3217 and I placed 751st. There were 1427 women runners and I placed 215. In my age group there were 188 and I was 26th. So overall a nice showing. How about for the combined effort?? There were a total of 2008 who thought it would be a good idea to run a half marathon in two races. Of those 2008 I came in 421st. There were 806 women and I was 85th. Finally, in my age category there were 128 and I came in 12th. Considering I have only been running for less than 4 years and I ran a marathon just last month. I’ll take those numbers. More importantly I finished strong and felt well enough to enjoy exploring the city following the race.

So what’s next…well for the first time in several years I have no races scheduled. None. Zero. I’m not sure what my running plan is going to be. Running and I might need a break…just for a bit…in the back of my mind is the idea of running Boston for the Alzheimer’s Association in April of 2024. There is something about the feeling of crossing the finish line in a race that I will certainly miss. So I don’t think I’m totally done with racing. I think I’ve just hit the pause button. I welcomed a Peloton bike into my fitness life this month and I think I’ll be spinning and lifting…lifting and spinning. I haven’t lifted consistently since April…eek! Remember when I said was going to be better about that, well apparently I was not. I’m doubling down on lifting and spinning for the foreseeable future and then I’ll see where running and I shake out in the Spring. I want to wake up excited to run and I haven’t felt that way for a while. I look forward to finding that spark again. Until then you can find me @runreadridemom over on Peloton spinning until my heart is content.