Let’s Talk about Books – Run Read Repeat

Why run for the Boston Public Library Fund?

Obviously if you are going to run for a charity it needs to be important to you and connected to your why. So, why the Boston Public Library Fund? Here’s what I said on my application for the team:

Application: Why do you want to run for Team PBL?

Answer: To say that I’ve spent my life hopping from library to library is an understatement. I have deep memories that date back to my elementary school days of volunteering in the school library. I can clearly picture the librarian, Mrs. Breakstone- the card catalog system the comfort of being surrounded by books. I have similar memories in Junior High and Senior HS. One constant regardless of the school was that I was volunteering in the library. I imagine it’s my love of books that had me in the library as a student. The love of books has continued and been passed down to my children, ages 10 and 12. As I type this it seems really evident that I should most definitely have become a librarian. But I was fixated on becoming a lawyer, which I did and also involved a lot of time in a library! But after having children, I was drawn to education and back to the library. During the onset of Covid I became a substitute teacher to help bridge the gap during in person learning. Any guesses about where I was stationed…correct the library.

Running a race for charity has to be highly personal. You have to believe deeply in the cause and the mission to ask other people for money. When things get tough you have to draw on that sense of purpose of why you are doing something. While I do not live in Boston, I know the importance of the library to the community and the broad depth of the programming that you offer. I serve on a local library board, so I feel a connection to the importance of public libraries and what they contribute to the community.

Whenever I finish a race- my boys ask “which marathon are WE running next?” I always chuckle about the we part because I’m the one doing all the running. The answer has always been the same…BOSTON. They even got me the Run Boston hat as a reminder. The reality is that while they aren’t doing the running- they have always been part of the process. From chatting to me on the treadmill during my early morning training runs, to brainstorming ways to raise dollars for charity, to being out on the course with my husband to support me. As much as books are an integral part of our every day I can’t imagine how excited they would be to hear that we are going to fundraise for the BPL.(Read about their response below). For them and me it would be a dream come true to combine my passion of running and reading while accomplishing the unicorn marathon.

Application: Please tell us something interesting about yourself.

Answer: I’m a mom to two boys, who pivoted her entire professional life when they were born. While I don’t regret getting a law degree (truly got to have my dream job!), as it provides me a foundation for much of my work as it relates to critical thinking and putting systems into place for our independent day school- I’ve thought more than once about going back to school to obtain my library science degree. I feel blessed to be able to work at the same place my children go to school.

In the mean time I share my love of reading and book in general in other ways- like blogging about them or sharing on social media. My blog website is literally- runreadrepeat.com. I started a book club at work. We have been meeting for nearly two years. Each month the group comes up with a genre and I put together 5-6 books for everyone to consider. Then we vote- so we all have ownership over the book. Some have been winners- others less so but it has really helped build a sense of community among a group of us who know that we all enjoy reading.

I also enjoy meeting authors and attending author events, especially those presented as public library fundraisers. My best friend from college and I plan our annual get together around traveling to an author event. I’m so excited because this coming week I’m taking my ten year old to a local event featuring Jeff Kinney. He’s literally been counting down the days until he gets to see meet his first author in real life.

So how did the boys respond to the news? You know how there’s just something about kids- where their emotions and responses are so genuine? There was so much PURE JOY when I shared the news. The wheels were already turning for them about how much fun it would be to incorporate our love of reading/books and running into this adventure.

I think it’s clear me + books + running = Boston Public Library Fund 2026 Boston Marathon team!! Let’s go!

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The Blog is BACK…and did someone say Boston Marathon?

It has been a minute since I provided an update. Actually, it’s been nearly two years! How is that possible? It seems working and momming, running and reading and all the things in between got in the way just a bit. I started this blog in January of 2020. Yes, in the life before Covid, during my stay at home mom life era. In September I would go back to work, for what was supposed to be part time that quickly turned nearly full time subbing in the Lower School…during COVID. One thing led to another and by July of 2021 I was back to work full time. So much has happened in the nearly six year since I created this space! But let’s just do a quick catch up sine January 2024…shall we?

Books- I’m still reading all of the books!! I don’t anticipate returning to regular book reviews on this platform, but never say never. The best place to see my latest reads is on Instagram. I started a book club at work. We have been meeting for over eighteen months. We have fun discussions and read a variety of genres. Plus we meet in the middle of the day, so we are actually talking about the books! It has been such a great way to spend time with my coworkers doing something that we all enjoy. It’s been so meaningful to me to inspire others to rekindle their passion for reading. I’ve connected with Netgalley and love the opportunity to read Advanced Reader Copies of books! We have added visiting local independent bookstores to our itinerary whenever we travel and have a running list of all those that we have visited. The boys are totally in love with this idea and we’ve discovered so many fun small businesses to support as part of our travels. I continue to attend author events and enjoyed sharing C’s first opportunity to meet one of his favorite authors- Jeff Kinney. It’s also possible that I introduced myself to author Lucy Score in a Sheetz bathroom following a Frederick Backman author event and a picture of us from the bathroom was in her newsletter. I’m also into my second year on the Jewish Library of Baltimore Board. Books and access to them continue to be a meaningful and integral part of my life.

Family/Life-The family is doing well! We are in our travel soccer, wrestling, drums, piano era. Which means, Jeffrey and I spend a lot of time dividing and conquering. The boys continue to amaze me each and every day with how they conduct themselves and the commitment they have to their various interests. It’s hard to believe that they are in 6th and 4th grade. The world they live in is so different from the one Jeffrey and I experienced. We work to keep them grounded in faith, family and friends to remember what is truly important.

I transitioned into a new role at work. While I’m missing “my people,” I’m loving the new challenge of building an organizational system and using my brain in new ways again. I get to work with an entirely different part of the campus. We said goodbye to Ruby in September. She was my shadow, my ride or die, always by my side furry companion. Truth be told, rather than sitting at the table, if she were here, I would be on the couch typing with her snuggled up next to me. Hoping each day gets a little bit better, but we still have a Ruby sized hole in our hearts.

Running-How about running- what has happened on the running from since January 2024?? Honestly, running had just become one of the many things I was doing to stay active. Then I was more focused on riding and lifting. In the summer of 2023 we went to Boston as part of our summer vacation. During the course of the trip, I picked up a Run Boston hat. The seed was planted in that moment that I would run the Boston Marathon. September of 2024, the running switch flipped and I applied to run the Boston Marathon for charity. Spoiler alert I wasn’t selected. I was incredibly disappointed, but used the opportunity to find another marathon. In March, 2025 I ran the Virginia Beach Shamrock Marathon. A beautifully flat course. A much smaller race, but the perfect race back into running races again. It was the first time I wasn’t running a race for charity, but just because I wanted to run a marathon. I know, why does anyone want to run a marathon?? More to come on that topic soon!

Why is the blog back?? Originally, way back when I created it this was a space to share racing/training updates. And maybe, just maybe I’m going to have a big race coming up in 2026. If you know me, I didn’t just let one year of not getting selected for the Boston Marathon keep me from trying again. As soon as the application process opened I submitted my application to the same charity that rejected me last year. I promise there are no hard feelings and I will forever be supportive of them and their mission! I knew that my why was the same and hoped that this year would be different. But as a wise person reminds me- hope isn’t a business plan. So when a coworker suggested I apply for a charity team that is in line with my values and interests (you won’t be surprised to hear what charity) I applied there too. Two chances had to be better than one?! After submitting my application, I had the most lovely follow up conversation with the organization. They loved my passion and the fact that my marathon running/fundraising is a family affair and on Thursday, October 30 they offered me a bib for the 2026 Boston Marathon! To say I’m excited is an understatement. The boys are excited- Jeffrey is excited that I’m excited.

Fun fact, that original charity, the one that said no in 2024. They reached out on October 31 and offered me a bib. Ironic, right? I share this to say- that this is 100% my year for Boston. It was meant to be. Shortly, I will reach out and decline the October 31 offer and make someone on the waitlist very happy!! I will forever support that charity and their mission.

I have run the NYC and Chicago Marathons for the Alzheimer’s Association and in memory of my dad. Incredibly meaningful and the most important why for which I could run. I’m forever grateful for the opportunity and the fact that I could honor him in that way. It’s time for a new chapter.

Big reveal- For the Boston Marathon, I will be running for a new charity. One that I truly believe my dad would be excited for me to get behind and hopefully he will be pushing me up Heartbreak Hill- One that excites me and is still very near to my heart. One that my boys are excited about and thinking about ways that they can help with the fundraising efforts. One that involves…wait for it…books! I can’t think of a time in my life that books weren’t a part of it. If you were to visit our home, you might ask if it was actually a library. The first place C visits when he gets to school each day…the library. When I was completing my application for the marathon I reflected on all of my school librarians from elementary through high school and how I can vividly remember volunteering in the library The card catalog to digital library. I’m the secretary of the Jewish Library of Baltimore- because books and access to books is so very important. So, no surprise I’m running the 130th Boston Marathon for the Boston Public Library Fund!

I’m truly excited for this opportunity. For the fun we will have as a family to fundraise so that the Boston Public Library can continue to provide the amazing services that they do to the Boston community. Running the literal unicorn of marathons is once in a lifetime opportunity. I can’t wait to share the journey from beginning to end!

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2024 the Reading Adventure Continues

Reading is a hobby, it’s a passion, it’s a love. And amazingly it’s being passed on to our boys who were gifted Kindles for the holidays and are constantly adding new things to be read. Yes, I know I was a HUGE proponent of reading “real” books. I also have shelves and shelves of unread “real” books and boxes of books that I have read. I’m not trying to flip flop on you, I’m pivoting (another favorite word) to what has proven to be exponentially easier for every day and quite honestly for travel. This is not to say I won’t read a “real” book every now and then as I remain a committed Book of the Month subscriber, but I’m saying it seems to be easier to read on my Kindle not only for my eyes but for the ability to easily always have it with me.

The next challenge is how in the heck am I going to document books read this year??? I was consistent about updating my blog last year until about June and then the wheels fell off the cart. I have since gone through and provided reviews for most of the books that I read in 2023. I’m moving to electronic journaling and planning for 2024 and along with that came my introduction to Goodnotes. I’m using the platform to keep track of books and to create reviews. It’s still a work in progress so there might be some adjustments as the year goes on.

So, what’s on the horizon for 2024. My goal is to read 80 books. Again, I would like to read a book that starts with every letter of the alphabet. It’s a fun challenge. This year I’m also embarking on The Ultimate Reading Challenge. There are twenty-five prompts and challenges to complete throughout the year along with little prizes within. Think attend a book club or go to an author event. Read a childhood favorite. I’m excited to give this a try. Really, what I need is about a week on the beach with a fruity cocktail and a huge stack of books. But, since this is real life I will continue to squeeze reading in around mumming, working and all the other things.

After much consideration I think that the easiest way to keep track of the books read this year is in chronological order. At the end I will keep a running list by letter of the alphabet in case you are looking for a book that beings with a particular letter. Each year I experiment a little more with the “best” way to do this and somehow keep coming up with new ways. Hopefully this will work for this year! Check back for updates…hopefully more frequently than 2023 or better yet follow along on Goodreads or Instagram (@KJoyBlav).

Book 1- The Lost Apothecary

Book 2 The Amazing Grace Adams

Book 3

Running Alphabetical List of 2024 Reads

Amazing Grace Adams

Confessions of a forty-something f##k up

The Lost Apothecary

A New Reading Challenge for 2023

A fresh new year of reading goals are underway! I’m so excited for many books coming out this year and eager to make a dent in my every growing TBR book shelf. What started out as a few books has basically grown to take up an entire shelf. So many books, so little time!! So how to get to those books that have been sitting on the to be read shelf a little bit longer than they should. Well, I’m so glad that you asked…a reading challenge of course. While scrolling Instagram in late December I stumbled upon a suggestion to read a book title for every letter of the alphabet. I love a good challenge. That and I would love to clear out some of the books that had been sitting around longer than they should. This challenge will get me to read the books I might have been ignoring for new ones that have be released. Don’t worry, I’m still going to read plenty of new releases, but I’m going to try to read a book that starts with each letter of the alphabet along the way.

For the last two years I’ve struggled with the best way to share thoughts on the books that I have read. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to give more in depth reviews, do a post each month with what I had read, then put it into a longer post for year. So here we are, I’m going to organize my books read alphabetically. I don’t think time is going to allow for more in depth reviews. But we shall see. Click on the letter below to be taken to that letter of the alphabet to see what book(s) I have read. Will you join me in trying to read a book for each letter of the alphabet?? You can also follow me over on Goodreads to see what is on my growing TBR list! Happy Reading!

A | B | C | D | E | F | G | H | I | J | K | L | M | N | O | P | Q | R | S | T | U | V | W | X | Y | Z

28 Summers, by Elin Hilderbrand (June 15-June 17)
⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter A

All the Dangerous Things, Stacy Willingham (January 2- January 7)
A mystery, thriller gem from Stacy Willingham. She kept me on my toes with all of the different sub plots. Everything was woven together beautifully and tied up with a bow a the end. A great read!! Four ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Apples Never Fall, by Liane Moriarty (May 23-May 29)
Apples Never Fall was on my TBR list for well over a year. There were so many layers in this book. Family. Expectations. Giving up one’s dream. Family first. it’s a long read, but worth it. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

A Little Ray of Sunshine, by Kristan Higgins (September 13-September 20)
This was my first book by higgins and definitely will not be my last. Think family secret, adoption, unrequited love and thinking the best of people. So much of life on the pages of this book. highly recommend. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

The Assignment, by Liza Wiemer (November 7-November 8)
I had the pleasure of meeting wiemer and discussing this book as part of book club at school. An important read not only on the topic of ANTISEMITISM, but also injustice. The importance in being vocal and speaking out about injustice. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Books that begin with the letter B

By a Thread, Lucy Score (March 16-March 19)
I dusted off my Kindle recently for a trip. And I took advantage of Kindle Unlimited to get this gem by Lucy Score. She has quickly become a favorite author. While her language is colorful and there are more than a few bedroom scenes in her books, i enjoy how she takes seemingly real people, like Ally and brings them to life. Thrown into the romance and managing life was the fact that Ally’s dad was suffering from dementia. Again, anyone who can make 500 plus pages fly by must be doing something right!! 4 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Bad Girl Reputation, by Elle Kennedy (August 21-August 26)
Back to reading on my kindle- taking advantage of the libby app and kindle unlimited. Again- this was good- not great, but kept me hooked enough to anticipate book three in the series. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Breakaway, by Jennifer Weiner (October 1-October 6)
⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Burnout, by Sophie Kinsella (November 16-November 19)
As you would imagine this is a book about a woman is completely burnt out! Amazing things can happen when two burnt out people connect at a RAMSHACKLE resort on the british seaside. taking a break to REEVALUATE life in a romantic comedy. great read. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Bright Lights, Big Christmas, by Mary Kay Andrews (November 25-November 25)
Andrews does it again. I’m a sucker for a holiday romantic comedy and this was another home run. I laughed and i cried and fell in love with the characters. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter C

Camp Zero, Michelle Min Sterling (April 10-April 16)
This was well outside my normal reads. It was also the April Read with Jenna selection. The best thing I can say about this book is i’m done reading it. 2 ⭐️ ⭐️

The Celebrants, by Steven Rowley (May 30-June 7)
A book about friendship, a pact, knowing who your people are and knowing you are loved. Also a read with Jenna selection. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Cassandra in Reverse, by Holly Smale (August 3-August 6)
I had high hopes for this book. It was Reese’s Book club Pick for June. I must admit, I thought it fell flat. it was redundant and UNNECESSARILY complicated. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Culture Code: The Secrets of Highly Successful Groups, by Daniel Coyle (July 3-August 14)
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Books that begin with the letter D

The Dead Romantics, by Ashley Poston (August 9-August 14)
I laughed. I cried. I’m attached to florence and ben. Another do yourself a favor and read this book! ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Books that begin with the letter E

Evidence of the Affair, Taylor Jenkins Reid (February 27-February 28)
As a huge fan of TJR it was time to read this story, a collection of letters between a wife who learns that her husband is cheating and the husband of the cheating wife. Another Amazing work by Reid, with a twist at the end that I didn’t see coming!! Do yourself a favor and read Evidence of the Affair. 5 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter F

Forever Never, by Lucy Score (May 10-May 17)
3 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Finlay Donovan is Killing It, Elle Coimano (February 7-February 12)
This book has been sitting on my TBR shelf for a very long time. It is book one of a three part series. The third book came out in the beginning of february. I love a good series and decided it was time to finally read this mystery. I really struggled with how I felt about this book as i was reading it. Finaly donovan has been getting great reviews, but i found the first half of the book slow and the best way to describe how i felt when i was reading is stressed. i plowed through more to just get it done than because i really cared about the outcome. while tempted to give the other books in the series a try- i’m more inclined to keep working through my tbr first. Three ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Five Star Weekend, by Elin Hilderbrand (June 19-June 24)
If you were going to invite five friends from a different stage in your life for a weekend together- who would you include? The Five Star Weekend is about just that…and some twists, turns and drama along the way. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, by Patrick Lencioni (July 24-July 25)
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Books that begin with the letter G

Good Girl Complex, by Elle Kennedy (August 19-August 20)
This is the first book in the Avalon series by kennedy. I wouldn’t say I loved it- but i definitely enjoyed it enough and felt invested enough in the characters to read all three books. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Good Bad Girl, by Alice Feeney (October 27-November 1)
Buckle up this thriller will keep you on your toes. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter H

Happy Place, by Emily Henry (May 7-May 10)
I love Emily Henry’s books! Happy Place, is no exception. This was an easy and enjoyable read. I was invested in the characters and eager to find out what happens. I also enjoyed the Theme of doing what makes you happy. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Half Moon, by Mary Beth Keane (June 8-June 11)
This was my first book by Keane. I’m thankful to Book of the month for introducing me to new to me authors. A quick and enjoyable read with great character development. loss, love, infertility- Keane covered it all. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Hello Stranger, by Katherine Center (July 16-July 18)
Hello Stranger is a fun, quick read that will make you feel good and quite honestly return your faith in humanity! ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Books that begin with the letter I

I’m Glad My Mom Died, Jennette McCurdy (February 28-March 8)
When I was in NY in January I felt like this book was everywhere! So I picked up a copy at Strand Bookstore. When I finally had a chance to read it, I had to remove the book jacket since the boys kept asking why anyone would be glad their mom died. My response- it’s complicated. Jennette McCurdy masterfully shared about her complicated relationship with her mother and her body. Definitely different from my normal reads, but I found her book insightful and thought provoking. 4 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter J

Just My Type, by Falon Ballard (November 23-November 24)
Old flames reunite in the journalism world. one must look deep and EVALUATE there ability to function without being in a relationship, while the other must stop being a bachelor. Through a competition into the mix. a fun read, with well developed characters. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter K

Kiss Her Once for Me, by Alison Cochrun (November 19-November 22)
Another that had been on my TBR pile for quite some time. A delightful rom com with a twist. a combination of loveable, yet flawed characters will have you eager to keep reading. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter L

Love and Other Words, Christina Lauren (February 13-February 15)
I was invested in the characters of Love and Other Words from the first few pages of reading. unlike my last book that made me feel stressed while i was reading, i found myself smiling was i was reading this book! I’m sad the book is over. It was a quick and fun read With an unexpected twist. A Five ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The London Seance Society, by Sarah Penner (March 19-March 26)
Mystery, murder, intrigue, Seances and love. lots packed into this gem of a book set in 1800s london. This was not my TRADITIONAL pick, but i loved it. 5 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Lonely Hearts Book Club, by Lucy Gilmore (October 13-October 21)
I LOVED this book! A librarian, a curmudgeon, life, death, love. All the things are on the pages of this absolute gem! ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Lease on Love, by Falon Ballard (December 21-December 26)
Read one book by a new author that I love then I find their other books. After I read Just my Type moved Lease on love up on my TBR. Somewhat predictable mixed with twists and turns.⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter M

Maame, Jessica George (February 19-February 26)
This was another REad with Jenna pick and as a bonus it was also Book of the month. While fiction, this definitely read more like a memoir. I love stepping out of my normal genres and trying something news. A coming of age story that also explores grief, love and life. Give Maame a try if you are looking for a debut author and a book that will get you thinking!

My Favorite Half-Night Stand, Christina Lauren (February 26-February 27)
Christina Lauren is one of my go to authors when I am looking for a fun, light read that I can finish in one to two days. I stayed up way to late finishing My Favorite Half-Night Stand. I just needed a resolution for Millie and Reid.

Maybe Someday, by Colleen Hoover (April 16-April 19), Maybe Not, by Colleen Hoover (April 20-April 20), Maybe Now, by Colleen Hoover (April 20-April 23)
None of these books were life changing, however they were fun and quick reads with enjoyable characters and I would highly recommend reading them. Overall 4 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Meet Me at the Lake, by Carley Fortune (May 1-May 6)
This is another hit by Fortune. All the feels with this book and a quick read. highly recommend.⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Mad Honey, by Jodi Piccoult (July 20-July 24)
Powerful, Riveting, thought provoking. A dynamic book. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

The Many Lives of Mama Love: A memoir of Lying, Stealing, Writing and Healing, by Lara Love Hardin (August 30-September 1)
I tried to read one or two memoirs a year. Given my criminal justice background Hardin’s book attracted my interest. Major take aways are that we shouldn’t judge someone when they are at their worst. people can change for the better. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter N

Nora Goes Off Script, by Annabel Monaghan (August 7-August 8)
Reading Annabel Monaghan feels like catching up with an old friend. I laughed, I cried. I highly recommend this quick and enjoyable read.⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

None of This is True, by Lisa Jewell (September 2-September 3)
This was a gem of a thriller from jewell. jewell has you guessing until the end. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Books that begin with the letter O

One Fire Island, by Jane Rosen (June 13-June 15)
I laughed. I cried. I channeled my childhood visits to Fire Island. Hands down a must read. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

The Only One Left, by Riley Sager (October 21-October 27)
⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Books that begin with the letter P

Pineapple Street, by Jenny Jackson (March 26-March 31)
I’m not quite sure what I was expecting with this book. it is a book about the 1% and their trials and tribulations with rhe rest of the world. It was a quick and light read, but not overly thought provoking. 3.5 stars rounded up to ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Pack Up the Moon, by Kristan Higgins (November 5-November 11)
This book left me initially speechless. imagine you know that you are going to die and your write a letter to your spouse for every month after you are gone. a truly touching story about love, grief and moving on after loss. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter Q

The Queen’s Gambit, by Walter Tevis (December 26-December 30)
I was in search of a book that began with the letter Q to complete my 2023 reading challenge. the queen’s gambit came up more than once as a suggestion. i wasn’t sure i was going to like it. surprisingly i loved it. i enjoyed the development of the characters and even the exploration of the game of chess. a surprising win. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter R

The Reunion, Kayla Olson (January 22-January 30)
A popular show, think Dawson’s Creek has a reunion fourteen years after the last episode. A light, fun read yet with some emphasis on making hard life choices weher it relates to love and career. While this book started a little slow, the second half really picked up and I couldn’t put it down. A solid 3.5 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ rounded to four ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Romantic Comedy, by Curtis Sittenfeld (April 24-April 30)
This took me a little bit to get into. Might have been that I was just overtired when I was trying to read. Ultimately, I really enjoyed it. It wasn’t your typical romantic comedy as there were some twists and turns along the way. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Resurrection Walk, by Michael Connelly (December 16-December 18)
Connelly is one of my must read authors. i especially love the Bosch/haller books. This was another winner as the dynamic duo work to uncover those who have been wrongly convicted. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Books that begin with the letter S

Sam, Allegra Goodman (January 20-January 21)
Sam, was the read with Jenna pick for the month of January. I was intrigued by the plot and since i’m trying to read new authors i was happy for the suggestion. I couldn’t put this book down. Allegra Goodman pulled me into the book and into the lives of the characters. The characters were so real that I was eager to keep reading to find out what was going to happen next. A coming of age story for Sam with many twists and turns. I highly recommend Sam! Five ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Same Time Next Summer, by Annabel Monaghan (June 12-June 13)
This was the perfect beach read. I loved this book from beginning to end. The fact that it takes place on Long Island was an added bonus. Love, lost love, finding yourself and doing what brings you joy. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Sixth Wedding, by Elin Hilderbrand (June 18-June 18)
⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Simply Lies, by David Baldacci (July 8-July 15)
This was a 400 plus page book that kept me on my toes. I almost felt like I needed a score card to keep everyone straight. Hoping this is a new series from Baldacci!!⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Someone Else’s Shoes, by Jodi Moyes (July 25-July 30)
This sat on my TBR shelf for quite a while, depite buying it as soon as it came out. It was good, not great. I am glad I read it- but honestly it was long and over 400 pages. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Summer Girl, by Elle Kennedy (September 20-October 1)
⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Books that begin with the letter T

Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, by Gabrielle Zevin (March 31-April 4)
I must admit that I held off on reading this book because of the gaming component. Ultimately it was one of my favorite books that I’ve read in a very long time. I was drawn to the characters. While the undercurrent of the book is about gaming; it is really a book about life. The people who come into our lives for a specific purpose. A very thought provoking read. 5 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Things We Never Got Over, Lucy Score (February 16-February 18)
I can’t tell you how long I’ve been holding onto this book. Again, the sequel is coming out in a few days so I knew it was time to finally read it. Oh my! How have I not read any of Lucy Score’s books before?? Although this book is nearly 600 pages I finished in just two days. I couldn’t put it down. I stayed up way too late to finish and was not disappointed. I’m sad I need to wait a few days for the next book in the series. Highly recommend this book if you aren’t afraid by some colorful language. a 5 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ read for me!

Things We Hide from the Light, Lucy Score (March 10-March 16)
I have very quickly become a lucy score fan!! Reading three of her books in just over a month. Not going to like there’s quite a bit of foul language and some graphic sex scenes but I truly love the way she develops her characters. I absolutely love Nash, Knox, Naomi, Lina and the gang of Knockemout, Virginia. Now I must anxiously await the thrird book in the series that comes out in September. Only Lucy Score could make 500 plus pages fly by! 5 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The True Love Experiment, by Christina Lauren (May 19-May 23)
Christina Lauren books are my go to when I want a quick and fun read. i was eager to keep reading The True Love Experiment to find out what happens to Connor and fizzy. There was some predictability, but still a great book. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Things We Left Behind, by Lucy Score (September 6-September 11)
⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Things You Save in a Fire, by Katherine Center (December 2-December 4)
After discovering katherine center i’m going back and reading some of her earlier books. her character development is great. i’m always eager to find out what is going to happen to the characters. there are usually tears, smiles and laughs along the way. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Troubles in Paradise, by Elin Hilderbrand (December 19-December 20)
⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter U

The Unsinkable Greta James, by Jennifer E. Smith (December 5-December 10)
after the loss of her mother Greta james finds herself on what would have been her parents anniversary alaska cruise with her father, with whom she has a strained relationship. an examination of grief, love, life choices and family. maybe i enjoyed this more than others becasue we cruise annual, but this was a winner for me. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Books that begin with the letter V

(The) Villa, Rachel Hawkins (January 15-January 18)
rachel hawkins has become one of my must read authors. i pre-ordered The Villa and I couldn’t wait to read it. I must be honest, I was underwhelmed. I had high expectations after reading Reckless Girls and her witchy romance books that she writes under a pen name. While The Villa was good, it felt rushed at the end as though Hawkins was in a hurry for it to be over. I did however enjoy the multiple perspectives and the back and forth from the 70s to the present day. So all in all a Good, not a great read. Three ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter W

Winter Stroll, Elin Hilderbrand (January 1-January 2)
Book 2 of the winter series. Winter Stroll offered so many emotions and left me eager for the next book. I’m so happy that I was late to the party so to speak on this series so that I could read them one after the other. SEt in Nantucket, like many of Hilderbrand’s other books I’ve added nantucket to our summer vacation list! I can’t wait to see what will happen next for the Quinn family. Five ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Winter Storms, Elin Hilderbrand (January 8 – January 11)
Book 3 in the Winter Series: In Winter Storms, it’s clear that Hilderbrand is setting us up for a more series final book. While the quinns are trying to hold everything together you know more is about to come. Signs of a good series that you are eager to read the next book. Four ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Winter Solstice, Elin Hilderbrand (January 11- January 14)
Book 4 in the Winter Series: I was bracing myself for the series to come to an end and knew for certain I would shed tears. Hilderbrand did not disappoint with the final book in the winter series. My only disappointment is that the series is over and I will miss the Quinn family! Four ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

What Lies in the Woods, Kate Alice Marshall (January 31-February 6)
I haven’t read a truly unnerving thriller in quite a while. What lies in the Woods was intense to say the very least. Often I have a pretty good sense of the “who did it” as I am reading. I must admit, this one kept me on my toes, never quite sure who was friend and who was foe. Five ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

The Wishing Game, by Meg Shaffer (July 2-July 8)
⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Winter in Paradise, by Elin Hilderbrand (November 11-November 16)
⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

What Happens in Paradise, Elin Hilderbrand (November 25-December 2)
⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

A Winter in New York, by Josie Silver (December 20-December 21)
Last year, I read my first book by josie silver and she became a must read author. i love ny and what could be better than a winter in NY. an examination of family dynamics, love, lost love and so much more. you won’t be disappointed in this book.⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️

Books that begin with the letter X

XOXO, Cody: An Opinionated Homosexual’s Guide to Self Love, by Cody Rigsby (December 10-December 16)
a book of cody-isms. This was completely what i expected- a fun read with cody’s personality shining through. i enjoyed learning more of his back story along the way. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter Y

Yours Truly, Abby Jimenez (April 7-April 9)
As with Jimenez’s other books I just couldn’t put this book down. The characters felt real and had real life “stuff” happen to them. Jimemez tackls a lot of real life issues in an easy read. 5 ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Books that begin with the letter Z

Zero Days, by Ruth Ware (June 24-July 2)
This was my first by Ware and won’t be my last. Jack is on the run as the primary suspect in her husband’s murder. She’s desperate to prove her innocence while finding the true killer. ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

December 2022 Books in Review

It’s hard to believe that 2022 is nearly over. How is that possible? I’m well aware of the phrase “the days are long, but the years are short.” Yet, it somehow feels like the years are flying by at warp speed. I’m so glad that I’ve made reading a regular part of my days again. I set out to read at least a book a week. I’m pleasantly surprised to see that I have surpassed that goal by more than twelve books. That said, the month isn’t nearly over. Plus it’s winter break. I look forward to adding several more books to this December books in review.

Lessons in Chemistry, by Bonnie Garmus (December 3-December 7)

Lessons in Chemistry, is a book that was all over the place this year. Barnes and Noble Book of the Year. Hyped in many book pages. It was on rotation on my TBR stack until it was the book club read at work. I’m so grateful that I got that push to finally move this books up on my reading list. It was AWESOME. Many books aren’t worth all the hype. The strong, determined female protagonist in this book tackled so many life topics. While set in the 50s/early 60s many of them still apply today. This is definitely on my MUST READ list!!

In a Holidaze, by Christina Lauren (December 11-December 12)

We are entering the holiday reading stage of the year. I have a serious stack of a variety of holiday books. Kicked off the feel good, romance holiday book reading with In a Holidaze. Not going to lie, I was a little confused by the start of this one and it took me a little while to get into it, however once I did it was a fun, feel good read. This gem pushes us to think about what we really want in life and how our path can be changed by one decision or choice. A fun read, but probably not my favorite from Christina Lauren.

The Matzah Ball, by Jean Meltzer (December 15-December 17)

What, a Hanukkah romance book?? Indeed this is a book with Jewish humor, food, talk about Hanukkah and more. Doesn’t everyone deserve the opportunity fo find their true love? Is it possible as an adult that your one true love is your summer camp archenemy? You’ll have to read to find out. Such a perfect way to kick off Hanukkah with this book by Jean Meltzer.

The Santa Suit, by Mary Kay Andrews (December 18-December 18)

The best way to describe this quick read from Mary Kay Andrews- is a Hallmark Movie in book form. The beauty of winter break allowed me to stay up super late and read this in one day. It was a great addition to the holiday book trend I was going for in December.

One Day in December, by Josie Silver (December 20-December 22)

Let the holiday book reading continue!! One Day in December was my favorite of the holiday reads. It includes a little bit of friendship, love, family and London (one of my favorite places to visit!). 5 star read that I highly recommend.

This Time Tomorrow, by Emma Straub (December 23-December 23)

What happens when your flight gets canceled and you find yourself on a coach bus for 19 hours to your destination. You have the chance to read a book that has been on your to be read list for over a year in one day. This was a very emotional read for me and I’m glad I gave it some distance from my dad passing. It was thought provoking and a tear jerker for sure. I’m so very glad I had the opportunity to enjoy it all in one day. Another must read recommendation!

Winter Street, by Elin Hilderbrand (December 23-December 26)

Back to winter themed books. I stumbled upon this oldie but goodie series of four books from Elin Hilderbrand. I brought the first two with me on vacation and then was sure to order the final two to have to read as soon as I returned. I enjoyed the “realness” of the characters and their life struggles. The first book introduces us to the family and makes you eager to keep reading. So glad I was late to the party on these as I was able to read them in quick succession and not have to wait for a new one to be released.

The Perfect Marriage, by Jeneva Rose (December 27-December 28)

Added a thriller to the feel good, holiday book reading. This one was a gift, so I added it to my books to take away. I would say it was good. Not great. I’m not disappointed that I read it, but there are better thriller, who done it books out there. That said, we never know when we are going to stumble upon an author that we love and I appreciate reading new to me authors and books.

The Great Alone, by Kristin Hannah (December 28-December 31)

A heavy book to get to seventy books for the year. This Kristin Hannah book had been on my to be read shelf for…basically forever. I’m not sure why I kept skipping over it. While the subject matter is intense, her writing is divine. You feel as though you have been transported into the book. While this is a long read, I was determined to get it done to finish up the year, that and I couldn’t put it down. Will have to make sure I don’t neglect her other books on my TBR list for so long. If you haven’t read The Great Alone, please do. It’s amazing!

October and November 2022 Books in Review

Since it is November 27 when I am sitting down to put together my October books in review it seems logical to combine October and November into one post. October was a super busy “life” month which translated to a super slow reading month. Granted I ran a marathon and had a major event at work, but I only read three books. I got really close to finishing a fourth but I just didn’t make it. I should note one of the three books that I read was 688 pages, so that should really count for at least two to two and a half books. In November I more than made up for my “slow” reading October. I love finding some extra time to read!

Eight Hundred Grapes, by Laura Dave (September 27-October 2)

Dave became one of those authors that I wanted to read her “backlist” of books. While this was a good book, it fell short of great and wasn’t my favorite by Dave. I gave it a solid 3.5 stars rounded up to 4 stars. This book did inspire me to want to visit wine country.

The Winners, by Fredrik Backman (October 2-October 23)

I have been waiting and waiting for the final book in the Beartown series from Backman. His books are nothing short of amazing and The Winners did not disappoint. While it was 688 pages long and it took me the better part of the month to read…life got in the way. Backman has this amazing way to pull at your emotions in ways you didn’t think possible by a book. I finished this one when the boys were out, so they missed my full on ugly crying. Another 5 stars for Backman!

It Starts with Us, by Colleen Hoover (October 23-October 24)

Colleen Hoover has the amazing ability to write a book that must be read in basically a day. It Ends with Us, the prequel to It Starts with Us, was an emotional tear jerker for sure and I couldn’t wait to read the next chapter in Atlas and Lily’s lives. The much anticipated sequel was again full of raw emotion, but some unanticipated twists and turns along the way. Another 5 star Colleen Hoover rating!

The Ex Hex, by Erin Sterling (October 24-November 1)

Not once in a 1000 years did I think I would be reading a book about witches. Witches?? Erin Sterling is really Rachel Hawkins. She writes under a pen name?! Who knew. I love her other books and I was intrigued by the synopsis of a Halloween themed, romance books. I’m so glad that I gave it a try!! This was a fun, light read especially for Halloween week. I highly recommend giving this one a read!

The Kiss Curse, by Erin Sterling (November 10-November 11)

Two witch- romance books in one month? But of course. The reason I learned about The Ex Hex was because this new book The Kiss Curse was coming out and I picked them both up from Book of the Month. This is the beauty of Book of the Month, getting introduced to new books, new authors and thinking outside the box with the books that I select. I devoured The Kiss Curse in just about a day, so it’s fair to say that it was a quick and fun read. Thank you Erin Sterling for giving me two fall favorites!!

The Family Game, by Catherine Steadman (November 11-November 18)

After two witch themed romance books I thought I would go back to my wheelhouse of thriller/mystery genre books. This was my 24th Book of the Month book on the year. It was intense. It was interesting. But, I would say that it was just good, not great. I’m not disappointed that I read it, but I won’t necessarily seek out other books by Steadman when I already have so many on my TBR list.

Desert Star, by Michael Connelly (November 20-November 23)

Michael Connelly is one of my must read authors. I’ve read all of his books. Bosch and Ballard are two of my favorite characters and I had my calendar marked for when this book was released. I made the mistake of starting it the week of Thanksgiving. I got completely sucked into the book and found myself preparing Thanksgiving dinner and unable to put the book down. Another gem by Connelly. A who done it, with political spins and a tug on heartstrings. 5 stars, must read!

In a New York Minute, by Kate Spencer (November 25-November 25)

After an intense and emotional read with Desert Star, I needed a feel good romance book and In a New York Minute did not disappoint. The Friday after Thanksgiving was basically my recovery from the crazy week day and I plowed through this book. It left me smiling. This sat for my TBR shelf for way too long. I wish I had read it sooner, but so glad I finally read it.

Something Wilder, by Christina Lauren (November 26-November 30)

I’ve been working to get through some of my “older” TBR books. Something Wilder is one of those books. The dynamic duo of Christina and Lauren combined a little mystery with a romantic book. It’s a winning combination. I promptly went and ordered some additional Christina Lauren books for winter break. Stay tuned because you’ll hear more from me about their books in the coming weeks.

September 2022 Books in Review…a bit after the fact

The start of the school year combined with the marathon training left much less time for keeping up to date with my blogging. Here it is October 22 and I’m just getting around to sharing about my September reads. I think I’ve finally come out the other side of the hectic fall to have a moment to gather my thoughts. You can tell it was a busy month, I only read four books. There was a time when reading four books in a month would have seemed like a lot, but given the amount of reading I’ve been able to do over the last year it feels a little below the monthly average. The fall was a time for many new releases. So while, the number of books I already have to read is….a lot, I still had to grab these new releases as soon as they came out. Two new releases I couldn’t wait to read were The Most Likely Club and Carrie Soto is Back.

The Most Likely Club, by Elyssa Friedland (September 3-5)

Hello, the 90s are calling. This was a much anticipated book for me this fall. I’ve been following Elyssa Friedland on Instagram and enjoyed all of the advance fun she was providing by way of Blockbuster cards, CK cologne and the like. I’ve greatly enjoyed her other books as well. This was a fun, skip my long run to finish kind of book. It really made me stop to think about where I thought I was headed in HS and the road that came after. Five stars!

Carrie Soto is Back, Taylor Jenkins Reid (September 5-11)

If you have read any of my reviews, you know that TJR is one of my absolute favorite authors. This was another book that I pre-ordered and had waiting for me on release day. While I don’t know much about professional tennis, I was sucked into the story. This book was one of those that I was sad that it as over because I wanted to know more about where the characters went after. A book about life, expectations and our own misgivings about ourselves. Another must read by TJR.

When we Were Bright and Beautiful, by Jillian Medoff, (September 11-20)

The bar for books this month was set high. I’m not completely sure what I was expecting from this Book of the Month book by Jilian Medoff. The best words to describe it were raw emotions and intense. While fiction, this book tackled some serious issues. I read to not think about serious issues- so this was a little much from that perspective and might be why it took me so long to get through. Honest thoughts- pass on this one there are too many other great books to read.

The Dinner List, by Rebecca Serle (September 21-27)

I needed the comfort of a favorite author after my last book. I’ve been carrying around The Dinner List for well over a year. While this too was an intense book, it was thought provoking and enjoyable to read. Had a great aha moment. There were definitely laughs and tears along the way. Signs of a great book!! Highly recommend this quick read by Serle.

August 2022 Books in Review

August signifies summer coming to a close, but I intend to eek out the last little bit of vacation, extra time with family and time for reading this month before the hustle and bustle of back to school and a busy fall. With a week long vacation on tap this month I’m anticipating it to be a month full of reading.

The House Across the Lake, Riley Sager (July 28-August 5)

This was my first book by Riley Sager. He has a ton of thrillers, but was an author I was not previously familiar until The House Across the Lake was one of the most anticipated books of summer. The book was intriguing and kept me on my toes. I must admit that it got a bit extreme in the last 1/4 or so, but with that sad I will look at some of Sanger’s other books in the future. While I love a good thriller, and I can’t wait to read House Across the Lake I’ve been tending to steer towards “calmer” reads of late.

After I Do, by Taylor Jenkins Reid (August 6-August 8)

What if the only way to save your marriage was to take a break from your marriage? Taylor Jenkins Reid has another winner as she weaves together a story of a couple who take a one year break to hopefully save their marriage. With no contact with one another for the entire rear they are left to deeply consider what went so wrong to hopefully come back together. Filled with laughs and tears, and surprises another quick read by TJR left me smiling.

One True Loves, by Taylor Jenkins Reid (August 8 – August 10)

What if you thought your husband was dead, so after years of grieving you begin to move on and find yourself broken but able to love again only to learn that your husband isn’t actually dead and he’s coming home?? Can you have more than one true love? Emma, Jesse and Sam are about to find out. Seriously, I don’t know how TJR does it, but she continually finds new ways to write thought provoking, truly enjoyable reads. Another must read!

Daisy Jones & The Six, by Taylor Jenkins Reid (August 10-August 13)

I thought TJR had finally written a book that I wasn’t going to love…but alas I was wrong and I was sucked into drugs, sex and rock and roll of the 1970s in this interview style book. Reid really set the stage (literally and figuratively) for the decade of music, while weaving in the relationship of the band, addiction and the struggles of life on the road. Completely different from all her other books, but again a winner!

Daisy Darker, by Alice Feeney (August 14-21)

I was eager to read another book by Alice Feeney. I enjoyed Rock, Paper, Scissors. This was a dark, twisty turvy book filled with family drama, death and who done it. There was a time that I was reading primarily mystery/thriller books. Following the intensity of this read, I’m going to follow it up with something “lighter.” It’s hard to really review this book without giving away too much. That said, there was definitely a moment when I said “I didn’t see that coming.” A solidly good, not quite great book!

The Unhoneymooners, by Christina Lauren (August 26-31)

The perfect romantic comedy “lighter” book to follow up Daisy Darker! This was my first book by Christina Lauren. I know, I know late to the party again with an amazing author. It will definitely not be my last. This feel good book, reminds of finding love when we least expect it. I really enjoyed this book, so much so that I stayed up way past my bedtime to finish it! Highly recommend.

July Books in Review

We are just past the half way point in the year. I thought keeping one long running list of books was a great way to keep everything organized, but I’m reevaluating. Sometimes we just don’t know until we try something, right? So I’m going to do a little combination going forward for the second half of the year where I’ll have a monthly post of the books that I read that month all in one place, and then I’ll add them to the running (yes, love to include a good running pun when I can!) of books for the year. This will save me from putting them all there later, but will also allow for an easier look at each month. I’m also going to try to give a for details with each review, rather than I really liked or it my attempt at saying I didn’t like it without saying I didn’t like it because I can only imagine how much hard work an author and their team put into each book. So here’s July!

Every Summer After, by Carley Fortune (June 26-July 1)

I was seeing Every Summer After just about everywhere on reading blogs, Instagram and the like. So of course I had to add it to my to be read list. This is a debut novel for Carley Fortune and she hits it out of the park!! Told over a series of years this book tackles young love, angst of the teenage years and reflection of what has been lost. I cannot recommend this book enough. I laughed, I cried and couldn’t turn the pages fast enough. I needed to know what happened to the characters.

The Bodyguard, by Katherine Center (July 2- July 3)

Katherine Center has many books. So while I’m late to the Katherine Center book party, I’m happy to be here. I’ve found that the more I’m engrossed in the book/reading community the more in tune I am to new releases. This is a good thing for my TBR list is getting longer and more diversified, while being a bad thing for my wallet. The fact that Book of the Month had The Bodyguard as an early release had me beyond excited. Who doesn’t love a tough as nails female protagonist who learns that she might have to let down her guard just a bit and shift her focus in life just a tad to have it all. The Bodyguard kept me on my toes until the final pages and it was a solid 5 star book!!

The Measure, by Nikki Erlick (July 6-July 13)

The Measure was such a thought provoking and inspiring read that in order to do it justice it needed its very own dedicated blog post.

You’re Invited, by Amanda Jayatissa (July 15-17)

It was time to add a thriller to the mix. This was the book that my bestie and I selected as our Book of the Month read for July. Maybe it’s because I’ve just come to expect too much from a book that this one fell a bit flat. It was good, just not great. There were some unexpected twists along the way, but overall I would say it was a three star read.

A Shoe Story, by Jane L. Rosen (July 18-July 23)

Shoes, love, Yiddish, food, and NYC were the perfect combination in this winner from Jane L. Rosen. While it felt a tiny bit slow to begin (or I was just too tired to read at night, which is a real possibility) I ignored my Saturday morning responsibilities to binge the last 150 pages of this book that had me laughing and crying. Highly recommend A Shoe Story.

Forever, Interrupted by Taylor Jenkins Reid (July 24-July 25)

I have yet to meet a Taylor Jenkins Reid book that I don’t devour in 24 hours. The tragic start to Forever, Interrupted pulled me in and I was eager to keep reading. A solid 4.5 stars. Now I’m off to read TJR’s other books before her new book is released next month. It’s always great to find an author whose style you just love.

That’s a wrap on July. Onto August reading. I have a heavy supply of to be read books that I’ll be taking on vacation. Hoping for a 7-8 book month.

What’s in the length of a string?

Truth be told most books that I read get a quick recap and a note as to whether or not I would recommend the book. I rave about those that I love and enjoy passing them along to others to read. I politely say a book wasn’t quite my taste, while hoping to not offend the author that I know spent endless hours writing and editing. The Measure, by Nikki Erlick deserves its very own blog post. That should tell you the significance of this book. If you only read one book that I’ve talked ever-about make this the book. It’s not so much about the story (which is great), but more for the thoughts that it provokes while reading. This debut novel by Erlick will get you thinking. Quick recap about the premise of the book…everyone 22 and older receives a box at their front door. Inside they find a string and the length of the string is an indication of the length of their life.

So many thoughts- but first I have to start with to look or not to look?? How do you decide whether or not you want to know when you are going to die? Can you imagine having the chance to know when specifically death was going to come? Not how, but when. How would it alter the way in which you live your life. Would it make you live life more fully or would you be bitter if you were a “short stringer?” Would you quit your job and travel the world? Spend more time with those that you love? Perhaps be kinder to those who you knew had less time left? My first thoughts on to look or not to look are tied to my family history with Alzheimer’s. I couldn’t quite shake that thought throughout the entire book. There are of course genetic tests that can be done to determine if you have the gene for Alzheimer’s. Similar to looking at your string, you can’t unsee the results. Long string…yay life is good. Short string…why is this happening. No different with the genetic testing. No potential likelihood for Alzheimer’s a big cheer. You have the gene- changes the rest of your life. It’s easy to say that you wouldn’t allow the knowledge to consume you, but personally I just don’t know how it wouldn’t have an impact. There was a period of time when I thought I would get the testing. I’m a planner after all and would rather know than not. I could at least make plans for the future. But then there’s a huge part of me who knows that it would be looming in the back of my mind if the results weren’t favorable. So for now, I’ve opted for ignorance is bliss.

Next big thought abut the string length is also directly related to my experience with Alzheimer’s. Long string means a long life, but it doesn’t necessarily mean a long life with a good quality of life. So, is a long string that includes a period of dementia or an illness that limits your quality of life better than a short string with a higher quality of life? I would argue that a short string with a healthy, higher quality of life would be better than a long string. But I imagine there are different opinions as to quality over quantity. I vote for quality every day of the week!

In our house we are always trying to make the most of each day. My mantras for running marathons are “I run for those who can’t” and “I run today because one day I won’t be able.” I would like to think that we are making the most of every without knowing when the end might be coming. Is that not what life is all about? That’s not to say that there aren’t things you have to do before the things you want to do or that it’s fun and games all the time. But that’s also life. There are responsibilities that come with the ability to go and do and explore the world around you.

One last aside, for those who know me, I run in the morning. When I got up this morning I just had to finish The Measure. So I sat on the floor with the Ruby while the rest of the house was asleep. Until my eight year old came into the room, book in hand and asked if he could sit in my lap and read with me. So we read, in a quiet house, while I cried finishing The Measure and I can’t think of a better reason for skipping my morning run.

So I have to know…would you look or tuck your box away and continue with life as though it hadn’t arrive?